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INTROVERT BFF
The social companion that gets you.
Before we become BFFs... which kind of introvert are you?
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THE EDGY ONE
Socially exhausted. Chronically over it. You need an exit strategy, not a pep talk.
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THE SENSITIVE ONE
Thoughtful. Caring. You just need the right words to protect your peace without hurting anyone.
Made by introverts, for introverts.
INTROVERT BFF
My Voice
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What do you need right now?
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SHOULD I EVEN GO?
Let's think this through. No judgment.
Work Party / Happy Hour
Team Meeting / Offsite
Huge Party
Small Gathering
Dinner
One-on-One
Family Gathering
Wedding / Big Milestone
Neighborhood Thing
Work
My Boss
A Colleague
A Client
Personal
Close Friend
Friend
Acquaintance
Partner
Family
My Child
Parent
Sibling
Immediate Family
Extended Family
Other
Neighbor
Stranger
💀 Dead
😩 Low
😐 Medium
😊 Good
🔋 Full
Or take the battery check-in for a more accurate read.
😰 Social anxiety
😶 Don't know anyone there
🔊 It'll be loud / crowded
😬 Complicated history with someone who'll be there
😔 Bad week — genuinely depleted
🤒 Not feeling well
😤 Felt pressured to say yes
🪤 It's a trap — no easy exit
💸 Money / logistics stress
🤷 Honestly just don't feel like it
Absolutely not
Not really
Maybe a little
Actually yes
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The honest take
What's actually weighing this
If you do go →
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I HAVE A REASON
Help me say this the right way.
Work Party / Happy Hour
Team Meeting / Offsite
Huge Party
Small Gathering
Dinner
One-on-One
Family Gathering
Wedding / Big Milestone
Work
My Boss
A Colleague
A Client
Personal
Close Friend
Friend
Acquaintance
Partner
Family
My Child
Parent
Sibling
Immediate Family
Extended Family
Other
Neighbor
😰 Anxiety about their reaction
😔 Genuine exhaustion
😤 Felt pressured into saying yes
😬 Complicated relationship
💼 Work relationship — need to be careful
🤒 Actually not well
🤷 Don't have a good reason, just don't want to
📱 Text
📞 Call Talking Points
YOUR MESSAGE
Not quite right?
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THE DARK SIDE
You've crossed the line. No judgment. We're here.
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Are you sure you want to cross this line?
You're about to generate a cover story. Use wisely. We're not responsible for your relationships.
Work Party / Happy Hour
Team Meeting / Offsite
Huge Party
Small Gathering
Dinner
Family Gathering
Neighborhood Thing
My Boss
A Colleague
Close Friend
Friend
Partner
Family
Neighbor
Anyone
😇 Believable
🎭 Dramatic
🤪 Absurd
🌫️ Vague
YOUR COVER STORY
Not convincing enough?
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HELP ME SURVIVE
You have to go. We'll get you through it.
Work Party / Happy Hour
Team Meeting / Offsite
Huge Party
Small Gathering
Dinner
Family Gathering
Wedding / Big Milestone
📋 Prep
💬 Convo
🚪 Escape
⏱️ Timer
YOUR SURVIVAL PREP
CONVERSATION TOOLKIT
The Host
A Close Friend
A Coworker
Nobody (Irish Goodbye)
YOUR EXIT STRATEGY
60:00
⏰ ESCAPE COUNTDOWN
When the timer hits 15 minutes remaining, start positioning yourself near the door. When it hits 0 — you've earned your exit. Go.
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GET ME OUT
Let's get you out cleanly. Start here.
Work event
Party / gathering
Dinner
Family thing
One-on-one
Date
Just arrived — awkward
30–45 minutes
About an hour
2+ hours — I've earned it
The Host
My Boss
A Close Friend
A Group
Nobody — Irish Goodbye
😩 Completely done
😰 Anxious and overwhelmed
😤 Just over it
🤒 Genuinely not well
😐 Fine but done
YOUR EXIT SEQUENCE — READ THIS
Need to adjust?
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BATTERY CHECK-IN
Let's figure out where you actually are.
😴 Less than 5 hours
😪 5–6 hours, rough
😐 6–7 hours, okay
😊 7–8 hours, decent
🌟 8+ hours, good
😵 Draining — haven't recovered
😔 Draining — somewhat recovered
😐 Fine — neutral
😊 Good — actually enjoyed it
🧘 No recent events — well rested
None — quiet week
1–2 small things
3–4 things, manageable
5+ things, a lot
Constant — no break
🤒 Sick or unwell
😫 Hungry, tense, or in pain
😐 Fine, nothing notable
💪 Good — rested and fed
🌑 Really not okay
🌘 Low and withdrawn
🌗 Meh — getting through it
🌕 Solid — okay day
☀️ Actually good today
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MY VOICE
So the messages sound like you wrote them.
all lowercase, no punctuation
casual, mostly lowercase
normal — mix of both
proper sentences, punctuation
professional and formal
One line max
Short — 2 to 3 sentences
Medium — a short paragraph
As long as it needs to be
Dry — minimal emotion
Neutral — matter of fact
Warm — genuine and caring
Very warm — expressive
Never — no emoji
Rarely — only if it fits
Sometimes — one or two
Freely — I use them a lot
How your messages will sound
Set your preferences above and we'll show you a preview.
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REACH OUT
You know you should. Let's make it less hard.
🎂 Birthday — on time
😬 Birthday — I missed it
💔 They lost someone
🤒 They're going through something hard
🎉 Big good news (job, baby, engagement)
⏳ It's been way too long
😔 I've been a bad friend
🙏 I owe them a thank you
💬 Just checking in
🤝 Want to make plans
Close Friend
Old Friend — drifted
Family
Colleague
Acquaintance
A few weeks
A few months
About a year
Several years
📱 Text
📧 Email
📞 Call talking points
💌 Handwritten note
YOUR MESSAGE
Not quite right?
The longer you wait to send it, the harder it gets. You don't have to be perfect. You just have to show up.
WORDS
Say what you need to say.
THE VAULT
Your alibi archive. Handle with care.
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